Blogging & Having PTSD

#parenting #ptsd #anxiety #child abuse #depression

I honest to God am flying by the seat of my pants in getting these blogs out. I am starting to get some comments! I acknowledge that bullies are created in home settings. Comments from Twitters is that they never knew that a sibling could be abusive. Our culture, and several other countries all over the world are dealing with bullying. The focus for solving this issue is not in the right place. Siblings are the most aggressive family members. The bullies come from home settings and have been practicing on their siblings. The abuse that is in the home from children toward their siblings, both biological and nonbiological (step children), should be given the attention. It isn’t the school setting that we should put our concern toward. As I write, I shudder at the children and teenagers who live in tyranny and have no freedom. They live in America and yet they are in the covert underworld of sibling abuse. Over stressed parents are clueless as to what is going on in their homes.

The earth breaking book for my abuse by a sibling was SIBLING ABUSE by Vernon R. Wiehe. It has stats and information that can help a victim become an empowered survivor.

Listening tip for a parent who is confronted with bullying or sibling abuse: Listen with empathy and focus on feelings. Example: “How did you feel when you were pushed.”
“I am here for you and want to listen.”

Many children, who are in the cycle of bullying or sibling abuse, are criticized and told that they are weak, stupid, etc.

2 Responses to Blogging & Having PTSD
  1. roger
    January 3, 2012 | 3:41 am

    Child abuse is something the Governments of today love. Since they have made a business out of dressing teens as adults rubber suits. And who ever have sex with one of these teens or who ever they have tricked into have sex with them gets a surgically implanted cap into there heads. What they have basically done is made a business out of have sex with children. And they have also seen child sex as a way of the future to feel good about themselves in a psychological way to advance technology. Child sex seems a way of the future for todays governments i’m afraid. A new psychological way to the future. This is disgusting what they are doing to these youngsters. In some third world countries they have made them dress as old frail people to dwindle money out of the pension system millions and millions and being dwindled out of pension systems the world over and its all going into Americas and europeans pockets.

  2. roger
    January 3, 2012 | 3:42 am

    Child abuse is something the Governments of today love. Since they have made a business out of dressing teens as adults rubber suits. And who ever have sex with one of these teens or who ever they have tricked into have sex with them gets a surgically implanted cap into there heads. What they have basically done is made a business out of have sex with children. And they have also seen child sex as a way of the future to feel good about themselves in a psychological way to advance technology. Child sex seems a way of the future for todays governments i’m afraid. A new psychological way to the future. This is disgusting what they are doing to these youngsters. In some third world countries they have made them dress as old frail people to dwindle money out of the pension system millions and millions and being dwindled out of pension systems the world over

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